The Two V’s
When you begin complaining to someone you may want to think first…
“Am I the Victim or did I Volunteer”?
Many times in life we get stuck in a situation, be it a ticket, or have a hang over, or am pregnant. Why is it that the first thing we do is complain? We feel sorry for ourselves. But ask yourself this…
Were you the one speeding?
Did you go out and drink too much?
Did you have unprotected sex (now I am talking willing not forced)?
We as people need to stop whining and take responsibility for our actions. Yeah you may have screwed up. Own it and move on. There will always be consequences to our actions. To be an adult it means
So once again before you complain are you a victim or volunteer?